How to Have Phone Sex (Yup, Phone Sex)

Experts swear it's hotter to leave a little to the imagination—which is why this old-school move still feels naughty as hell. Whether you're in an LDR, traveling for work, or just want to try something new, here's how to have phone sexthat'll leave your man hanging on your every word.

1- Gauge His Interest

We'd bet our next paycheck that your guy will be completely psyched to get frisky over the phone, but testing the waters still can't hurt. Sexologist Yvonne Fulbright, PhD, author of The Better Sex Guide to Extraordinary Lovemakingsuggests bringing it up during a casual conversation by saying something like, "I think it could be kind of fun to try phone sex while I'm in Houston next week. What do you think?" If the mood strikes while you're already on the phone, tell him, "I've been thinking about being with you all day," or "Hearing your voice makes me wish I could feel you inside me," and see how he responds.

2-Go in With a Game Plan

Having a general storyline in mind can help you avoidYikes, what do I say now?moments. Don't be afraid to plot out what you'll say and rehearse it beforehand. "Just keep it loose, so that he can interject and take the lead if he wants," Fulbright says.

3-Turn Yourself On

It's hard to feel lusty if you're cleaning the kitchen or browsing Facebook while on the phone with him. So sex up your atmosphere, says Fulbright: Dim the lights, pour yourself a glass of wine, and change into pretty lingerie. You can even spray his cologne on one of his T-shirts, so that it's easier to picture him by your side.

4-Channel Scarlett Johansson

Speak in soft, smoky, breathy tones. "Lower your voice until it's just louder than a whisper," says Stacey Weiss, author of Secrets of a Phone Sex Operator, who has worked in the business for 11 years. "And elongate your words—stretching them out sounds soothing and sexy."

5- Don't Spare Him the Details

Chronicle everything in very specific, graphic language: what turns you on about him, hot things you want him to do to you, the ways you'll tease and please him, how your body feels, and how you're touching yourself. "Walk him through the experience as if it were happening step by step," Fulbright explains. "And load it up with juicy adjectives and adverbs." Since men are visually oriented, painting a mental picture will really get him going.

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