Debbi Wood, 42, of Leicester, is so paranoid that her partner Steve Wood, 30, will stray that she also checks his phone, email accounts and bank statements several times a day for evidence of infidelity.
Mr Wood, who started dating Miss Wood in 2011 after they met through a friend, is even banned from watching women on television or looking at pictures of them in magazines.
Doctors have discovered that Miss Wood is suffering from Othello Syndrome, a psychiatric disorder which causes sufferers to believe their partners have been unfaithful - even without evidence.
She said: "Even if Steve pops out for 15 minutes to buy a pint of milk, I make him take a lie detector test as soon as he gets home. I get so worried that he's been eyeing up the shop assistant that I just have to know the truth.
"I think he's gorgeous, but that's not the issue - it's about whether or not I can trust him not to look at other women while he is out on his own. I don't want him thinking they're hot.
"If you're in a relationship and you're happy with your partner, you should only have eyes for that person."
Three years ago, Miss Wood's long-term relationship broke down, leaving her devastated. She was so heartbroken that she vowed to never get into another relationship.
Miss Wood was living in her native Scotland when a mutual friend introduced her to Mr Wood on Facebook a year later.
After exchanging messages for several weeks, she travelled to London where the pair enjoyed their first date.
She said: "I didn't mean to fall in love again after my last relationship, but Steve stole my heart. We started to get serious and made plans to move in together, but I then discovered that Steve had been seeing another girl around the time we'd first met. He claimed he didn't think we were exclusive because of the distance, and I forgave him but started to doubt whether or not he could be faithful."
She has already taken his surname as her own, in anticipation of the wedding after he proposed.
Miss Wood, who also suffers from bipolar and body dysmorphic disorders, added that her jealousy got worse when the pair moved in together as she tried to monitor Mr Wood's every move.
She installed child-proof filters on his laptop and mobile phone to stop him looking at explicit pictures of women and banned him from watching any television programmes featuring women.
Miss Wood said: "I decided to order the lie detector online. It was my only way of knowing for sure if Steve's eyes were wandering. In general, he's quite truthful, but I have caught him lying a few times about looking at other women."
Miss Wood said: "I put Steve
through a lot, but he's stood by me through it all... so I know he's the man for me. I think lots of women out there must be suffering from the same condition and just not realise it. I think it's because of the pressure society puts on us to look a certain way - to be stick thin with blonde hair and big boobs. I'm lucky my partner is so understanding - others might not be so fortunate."
Unemployed Mr Wood admitted life with his partner could be tough - but insisted she was worth it. He said: "Sometimes, I get nervous and the lie detector test results come back inconclusive because my heart is hammering, which makes Debbi doubt me. I just have to tell her I haven't cheated and pray she believes me.
"I'm willing to put up with it, because I know we're soulmates. She's so special to me and a bit of jealousy here and there won't change that."
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